{"id":25762,"date":"2023-12-12T12:36:33","date_gmt":"2023-12-12T11:36:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/juanfreijo.com\/?p=25762"},"modified":"2023-12-12T12:36:33","modified_gmt":"2023-12-12T11:36:33","slug":"como-se-nota-que-eres-un-chaval-sin-responsabilidades-siempre-riendo-ya-te-tocara","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/subdominio.juanfreijo.com\/index.php\/2023\/12\/12\/como-se-nota-que-eres-un-chaval-sin-responsabilidades-siempre-riendo-ya-te-tocara\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00abC\u00f3mo se nota que eres un chaval sin responsabilidades, siempre riendo, ya te tocar\u00e1&#8230;\u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\ud83d\udcfa Mi primer trabajo \u00abserio\u00bb fue en la TV, ten\u00eda ventipocos y era, en algunas facetas, como soy ahora: alguien positivo al que le gusta re\u00edr y tratar de no dramatizar en exceso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"633\" src=\"https:\/\/juanfreijo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/pastillas-1024x633.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25763\" style=\"aspect-ratio:4\/3;object-fit:contain\" srcset=\"https:\/\/subdominio.juanfreijo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/pastillas-1024x633.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/subdominio.juanfreijo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/pastillas-300x185.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/subdominio.juanfreijo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/pastillas-768x474.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/subdominio.juanfreijo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/pastillas-1536x949.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/subdominio.juanfreijo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/pastillas.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Entre bromas, me dijeron la frase con la que arranco el post. Me impact\u00f3 y trat\u00e9 de memomizarla para recodarla con los a\u00f1os \u00bftendr\u00e1 raz\u00f3n?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\ud83d\udeb8 El tiempo pas\u00f3, tuve hijos, responsabilidades y despedidas que dolieron pero no, no cambi\u00e9, mi actitud permaneci\u00f3. Y sin embargo la frase adquiri\u00f3 todo el sentido.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\ud83d\udca5 No, no se equivocaba, ten\u00eda mucha raz\u00f3n. Llevamos vidas complicadas que incluso, sin grandes dramas, pueden ser demoledoras. Esto no est\u00e1 bien organizado y prueba de ello es que \ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddf9 \ud835\uddf0\ud835\uddfc\ud835\uddfb\ud835\ude00\ud835\ude02\ud835\uddfa\ud835\uddfc \ud835\uddf1\ud835\uddf2 \ud835\uddee\ud835\uddfb\ud835\ude00\ud835\uddf6\ud835\uddfc\ud835\uddf9\u00ed\ud835\ude01\ud835\uddf6\ud835\uddf0\ud835\uddfc\ud835\ude00 \ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddfb \ud835\uddd8\ud835\ude00\ud835\uddfd\ud835\uddee\u00f1\ud835\uddee \ud835\uddf2\ud835\ude00 \ud835\uddf2\ud835\ude00\ud835\uddf0\ud835\uddee\ud835\uddfb\ud835\uddf1\ud835\uddfc\ud835\uddf9\ud835\uddfc\ud835\ude00\ud835\uddfc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\ud83d\ude0e \ud835\udde3\ud835\uddee\ud835\ude00\u00e9 \ud835\uddf9\ud835\uddfc\ud835\ude00 \ud835\udff0\ud835\udfec \ud835\uddf5\ud835\uddee\ud835\uddf0\ud835\uddf2 \ud835\uddfd\ud835\uddfc\ud835\uddf0\ud835\uddfc \ud835\ude06 \ud835\uddfd\ud835\uddf6\ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddfb\ud835\ude00\ud835\uddfc \ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddfb \ud835\uddfe\ud835\ude02\ud835\uddf2 \ud835\ude00\ud835\uddf6 \ud835\ude01\ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddfb\ud835\uddf4\ud835\uddfc \ud835\uddfa\ud835\ude02\ud835\uddf0\ud835\uddf5\ud835\uddee \ud835\ude00\ud835\ude02\ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddff\ud835\ude01\ud835\uddf2, \ud835\uddf2\ud835\ude00\ud835\ude01\ud835\uddee\ud835\uddff\u00e9 \ud835\uddfd\ud835\uddfc\ud835\uddff \ud835\uddee\ud835\uddfe\ud835\ude02\u00ed \ud835\uddfc\ud835\ude01\ud835\uddff\ud835\uddfc\ud835\ude00 \ud835\udff0\ud835\udfec y es entonces cuando vuelvo la vista a S\u00e9neca y trato de no olvidarle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Os dejo algunas cosas que tengo presentes y que me recuerdo cuando vienen mal dadas. Gracias por todo, Lucio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">1. \ud835\udddf\ud835\uddee \ud835\ude03\ud835\uddf6\ud835\uddf1\ud835\uddee \ud835\uddfb\ud835\uddfc \ud835\uddf2\ud835\ude00\ud835\ude01\u00e1 \ud835\uddfd\ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddfb\ud835\ude00\ud835\uddee\ud835\uddf1\ud835\uddee \ud835\uddfd\ud835\uddee\ud835\uddff\ud835\uddee \ud835\uddfe\ud835\ude02\ud835\uddf2 \ud835\ude00\ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddee\ud835\ude00 \ud835\uddf3\ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddf9\ud835\uddf6\ud835\ude07: \ud835\ude01\ud835\uddee\ud835\uddfa\ud835\uddfd\ud835\uddfc\ud835\uddf0\ud835\uddfc \ud835\uddfd\ud835\uddee\ud835\uddff\ud835\uddee \ud835\uddfe\ud835\ude02\ud835\uddf2 \ud835\ude00\ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddee\ud835\ude00 \ud835\uddf6\ud835\uddfb\ud835\uddf3\ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddf9\ud835\uddf6\ud835\ude07, \ud835\uddf9\ud835\uddee \ud835\ude03\ud835\uddf6\ud835\uddf1\ud835\uddee \u00ab\ud835\uddf2\ud835\ude00\u00bb, no hay m\u00e1s. Podemos envidiar, lamentarnos o dejarnos los escr\u00fapulos en la puerta de casa. Decide t\u00fa qu\u00e9 quieres ser, afronta lo que viene y recuerda que lo peor siempre est\u00e1 por llegar (lo mejor puede que tambi\u00e9n pero no es seguro).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2. Define t\u00fa el \u00e9xito: a la porra con los anuncios de colonias, los criptobros y los influencer poser. M\u00edrate a un espejo, enfr\u00e9ntate a una hoja y analiza \u00bfqu\u00e9 es realmente el \u00e9xito? \u00bfen qu\u00e9 consiste la felicidad para ti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">3. Toma decisiones. Aqu\u00ed la saga que estoy haciendo encaja bien \ud83d\ude42 Qu\u00e9 importantes son las decisiones sobre todo si tenemos en cuenta que \ud835\ude01\ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddfb\ud835\uddf1\ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddfa\ud835\uddfc\ud835\ude00 \ud835\uddee \ud835\uddfd\ud835\uddff\ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddf3\ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddff\ud835\uddf6\ud835\uddff \ud835\uddf1\ud835\uddf2\ud835\ude00\ud835\uddfd\ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddff\ud835\uddf1\ud835\uddf6\ud835\uddf0\ud835\uddf6\ud835\uddee\ud835\uddff \ud835\uddfb\ud835\ude02\ud835\uddf2\ud835\ude00\ud835\ude01\ud835\uddff\ud835\uddee \ud835\ude03\ud835\uddf6\ud835\uddf1\ud835\uddee (\ud835\uddfe\ud835\ude02\ud835\uddf2 \ud835\uddf2\ud835\ude00 \ud835\uddfa\ud835\ude02\ud835\ude06 \ud835\uddf9\ud835\uddf6\ud835\uddfa\ud835\uddf6\ud835\ude01\ud835\uddee\ud835\uddf1\ud835\uddee) \ud835\uddee \ud835\ude01\ud835\uddfc\ud835\uddfa\ud835\uddee\ud835\uddff \ud835\uddf1\ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddf0\ud835\uddf6\ud835\ude00\ud835\uddf6\ud835\uddfc\ud835\uddfb\ud835\uddf2\ud835\ude00 \ud835\uddfe\ud835\ude02\ud835\uddf2 \ud835\uddf6\ud835\uddfa\ud835\uddfd\ud835\uddf9\ud835\uddf6\ud835\uddf0\ud835\uddee\ud835\uddfb \ud835\uddf0\ud835\uddee\ud835\uddfa\ud835\uddef\ud835\uddf6\ud835\uddfc\ud835\ude00 \ud835\uddf6\ud835\uddfa\ud835\uddfd\ud835\uddfc\ud835\uddff\ud835\ude01\ud835\uddee\ud835\uddfb\ud835\ude01\ud835\uddf2\ud835\ude00 \ud835\uddfd\ud835\uddee\ud835\uddff\ud835\uddee \ud835\ude01\ud835\uddff\ud835\uddee\ud835\ude01\ud835\uddee\ud835\uddff \ud835\uddf1\ud835\uddf2 \ud835\uddfa\ud835\uddf2\ud835\uddf7\ud835\uddfc\ud835\uddff\ud835\uddee\ud835\uddff\ud835\uddf9\ud835\uddee.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">4. No trates de justificar ante los dem\u00e1s permanentemente tus decisiones, no les des ese poder sobre ti. Deja que tus actos hablen (si quieres que tus actos te definan m\u00e1s que tus palabras y ser feliz, es importante no actuar como un imb\u00e9cil).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">El estoicismo demuestra que en esencia, siempre hemos sido iguales y da lo mismo que seas un Inuk, de Carabanchel o Cristiano Ronaldo, lo vital nos une aunque el contexto y con ello, la facilidad para ser feliz, nos separe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Estamos determinados, claro, pero no predeterminados<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\ud83d\udcfa Mi primer trabajo \u00abserio\u00bb fue en la TV, ten\u00eda ventipocos y [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":25763,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25762","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-posts"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/subdominio.juanfreijo.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25762","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/subdominio.juanfreijo.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/subdominio.juanfreijo.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/subdominio.juanfreijo.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/subdominio.juanfreijo.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25762"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/subdominio.juanfreijo.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25762\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/subdominio.juanfreijo.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25763"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/subdominio.juanfreijo.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25762"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/subdominio.juanfreijo.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25762"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/subdominio.juanfreijo.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25762"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}